Paradise or Purgatory? Is a Retirement Community Right for
You?
Andrew D. Blechman

mericans have retired in droves to age-restricted
communities ever since six model homes opened in Sun City, Arizona,
in 1960 -- the first such development in the world. Today, as Sun
City plans a 50th anniversary celebration for its more than 40,000
inhabitants, some 1,500 “leisure retirement communities” have
become a way of life for nearly 12 million people.
While age-restricted communities tend to cluster in sunny
states, they’re proliferating everywhere. You may be surprised to
learn that 60% of new retirement communities are being built in the
North. Massachusetts, where I live, contains 150, with about 200
more proposed.
The largest age-restricted (and gated) retirement community in
the world is The Villages in central Florida. One-and-one-half
times the square mileage of Manhattan and currently housing 70,000,
this flock of “villages” lured former neighbors of mine, the
Andersons, several years ago. In a one-month stay at The Villages,
two weeks of which were spent at their new home, I did my
preliminary research for Leisureville: Adventures in America’s
Retirement Utopias, a study of retirement communities
around the country. My
goal: To
understand the appeal of a unique way of living that has been
luring our elders away.
INDEPENDENCE AND COMMUNITY
The most prominent type of retirement community, and the one I
studied for my book, focuses on recreation. The amenities are
plentiful, with little waiting for a tennis court or tee time...
and a constant influx of new residents that encourages bonding and
creates instant community.
Grown children feel relieved that Mom and Dad are busy and
happy. Some communities contain continuing-care facilities for
residents who become unable to care for themselves.
While these communities vary widely, they share attributes that
say “paradise” to some -- and “purgatory” to others.
A CERTAIN AGE
Designed for those who prefer a child-free environment,
retirement communities address the needs and desires of the older
set. Minimum age requirements -- usually age 55 -- are strictly
enforced. At least one member of each household must be the minimum
age or older. (Filling the house with unrelated roommates is not
allowed.) Guests, including relatives, under age 18 or 19 may visit
for only a predetermined number of days per year.
Pros: Residents relish the novelty
of having their needs treated as a top priority. A child-free
environment ensures more peace and quiet than ordinary
neighborhoods provide. Seniors feel safe surrounded by age
peers.
Cons: Grandchildren’s visits are
limited. They can never move in, whatever the family situation.
People who enjoy mingling with others of all types and ages might
find the setting too limiting.
RECREATION 24/7, INCLUDING SEX
Golf, tennis, swimming, Bingo, dances and hobby groups dominate
daily activities in leisure-oriented communities. An active singles
scene includes the never married, the divorced, the previously
widowed and those widowed after moving in. A relaxed social
atmosphere with no work responsibilities tends to encourage sexual
freedom. I have observed that a good number of older gentlemen, and
some women, regularly seek and find sex partners.
Pros: Life can be all
play -- a common retirement fantasy. Tennis courts, swimming pools
and gyms aren’t overrun by the young. Recreational facilities are
designed for less-than-perfect eyesight and physiques.
Cons: People who are
less focused on sports and hobbies may feel alienated, as may
retirees who derive significant pleasure from high culture --
opera, theater, classical music, a superb public library. Widows
and widowers who haven’t dated in 50 years and who dismiss the use
of condoms as solely for contraception are unaware that sexually
transmitted infections, including herpes, syphilis and AIDS, have
infiltrated the senior singles scene.
NEW CONSTRUCTION, LOTS OF RULES
Many retirement communities, being built in ever-increasing
numbers, boast that everything is new. The older ones were built
just as fast and not all that well.
Also, home owners must respect many rules (“deed
restrictions”).
Examples: Exterior paint colors and even
the height of shrubs may be prescribed... pets limited to two...
lawn ornaments and window air conditioners banned.
Pros: Modern amenities, including
plenty of bathrooms and closets. Homes designed with few stairs and
universal accessibility.
Deed restrictions ensure that neighborhoods remain clean and
neat. Many home owners consider mandatory conformity a small price
to pay for knowing that they’ll never see their neighbors’ car on
blocks, swing sets in the yard or gnomes on the lawn.
Cons: Slapdash construction,
including modern versions of old designs built with today’s
questionable workmanship, often lacks charm. Each community’s
success hinges on perpetual investment and care by the managing
owner. You may never know whether the developer is about to declare
bankruptcy, as some have, leaving behind partially completed,
thinly populated “communities” with houses that will probably
become increasingly difficult to sell.
PRIVATE OWNERSHIP
The communal areas of most recreational retirement communities
-- the golf courses, the downtown, the streets -- as well as the
empty lots and unsold houses are owned by their builders (or
whomever the builders sell them to). Special zoning arrangements
(these communities bring in lots of tax revenue for local
jurisdictions) may permit community rules to sidestep state and
county laws in many aspects of life.
Pros: Many residents, delighted with
their low per-home property taxes, feel confident that the owners
have a personal stake in meeting community needs.
Cons: Residents trade
the ballot box for the suggestion box. Residents with a gripe plead
their cases before a corporate board, not elected officials. Don’t
look in the local paper or at public meetings for discussions of
serious issues.
Expect to live under a form of “taxation without
representation.” Through steadily increasing maintenance fees, the
owners can charge residents for, say, new golf courses and
recreation centers.
ADVICE FOR POTENTIAL BUYERS
If age-restricted retirement community living attracts you,
visit several, staying for a while if you can arrange it. I learned
far more during my four weeks with the Andersons than any official
tour could have shown.
Generally, these communities have wonderful recreational
amenities. But is the intellectual spark bright enough for you? Can
you find a group that reads the kinds of books you like?Other
questions to consider...
Where do you want to be in 20 years? How would you feel
about being far from your family and old friends later in life?
Can you imagine aging happily there? Might you “age in
place” instead, perhaps having your current home retrofitted?
Will your house purchase be a good investment, bringing
decent value if you sell?